Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Chutzpah – Will it be a better way to encourage ideas


Judaism and Israel have always cultivated, “a culture of doubt and argument, an open-ended game of interpretations, counter-interpretations, reinterpretations, opposing interpretations. From the very beginning of the existence of the Jewish civilization, it was recognized by its argumentativeness.” – Quote from the book “Start-up Nation”

Ofcourse, I agree that open minded questions encourage lot of interpretations and birth of new ways of doing things; should we call innovation at an incremental level. I sometimes wonder looking at the organization structure and the level of hierarchy in the existing Indian business environment. People say “I follow an open-door policy”; I take that as he will step on us anytime for work. Now, I have worked on a manufacturing concern for a very short duration, and then in a typical IT development center for couple of years and in a research organization for more than a year. I feel that manufacturing is typical hierarchical structure while IT organization is big enough to adopt the Chutzpah culture. Can we say that this Israeli culture is more suited for smaller organization or in a typical high-end research oriented setup? I am not sure but we always have ways to adopt bits and pieces of good style for our own good.

In the traditional Indian family setup, elders are treated with more respect and withholding questions that undermine their superiority within the family. I have seen it myself and undergone the scenes when I was young. Situations have changed but the mindset hasn't completely. Culture of questioning is very vital for an individual growth and then to the larger audience such as organizations or teams. I find this completely lacking in the work environment. I, myself, am a failure of this mindset. Nevertheless, I have questioned myself with the task assigned to know what the outcome of the task should look like. I find the participation is totally lacking and taking things for granted has en-rooted deeply. I blame myself and the organization for the crippled environment and stuck to the same level of doing things. Bestowing the best with gifts and prizes is not really a health sign of encouraging members within the organization and without making it a challenging and open environment is a half-hearted attempt per se. Even for a dullest of jobs, there is always way of making it better. When I and my friends were in bench couple of years back, we used to challenge ourselves writing scripts to automate process. So, next time your time for setting up the initial environment for running codes is reduced. We also learnt from each other on the way. We used to take certification environments like there is no tomorrow and discuss on the same. Now, setting the level of competitive mindset without stamp footing on the minds of members is vital for an organization to showcase a positive environment.

Now, is it difficult for such an environment considering Indian culture besides knowledge based and back office kind of work. Thomas A. Edison once quoted, “There is always a better way.” I believe there is always a better way when we set our minds on it. It could probably start with a smaller team. The manager is a driver who has the keys and ability to start an open-minded environment within his team. Indians are more prone to ego clashes (including myself) and a disdainful behavior That’s a worrisome scenario individually and to the organization. It hampers the growth of both, a lose-lose situation. It is on the onus of the manager or a team lead to lead by example and he himself participating actively and encouraging people without ruffling feathers with individuals. Questioning someone ideas is the best way to make it solid and better. Even for a simple task, have a small discussion to know if someone has a better way of doing things. If someone is able to think differently and setting a slow precedent which others might also be tempted. If manager is not able to spend enough time with the team then an Israeli would have thrown him out which is both a stimulant and sense of duty creeping in the mind. An open environment with a thoughtful process may change things for better; a better workplace and a better team. It will not be a runaway hit on the initial attempts but making effort is nevertheless innocuous.

Hope for Good.

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Happiness Shows the Best Person Within You



This song is to bring out the feelings of a person who is unduly worried. It brings out real troubling thoughts and the ways it causes suffering within. Is there a way out of it? I don’t know....I tried to capture them in four stanzas of nine lines each.

There is a feeling...
              A troubling feeling...
That brings sadness
              On the smiling face
That casts dullness
              On the pleasing soul
That showers darkness
              On the shining mind
That makes loneliness
              On the crowding Life
That calls lowliness
              On the losing self

That’s the feeling called “WORRY”...
That’s gonna eat you wholly within...
That’s gonna take you away from you...


We walk with our eyes closed
We think with our minds locked
We do things with mechanical hands
We eat our food with no sense of taste
We sleep with our wandering thoughts
We get annoyed at funny things
We could win World’s saddest dump
We put ourselves in a thick shell
We don’t think about anything but nothing
Feeling very susceptible; feeling troubled

That’s the feeling called “WORRY”...
That’s gonna eat you wholly within...
That’s gonna take you away from you...

Avoiding people close to us
                Not knowing how they feel
Every effort to comfort fails
              You want to be alone
You become complete blind
              Fail to see reality of losing you
You don’t lose you;
              You lose people close to you
Look at the sun
           Glorifying the Morning Sea
Rise from slumber
           U gonna enjoy the beautiful life

That’s the feeling called “WORRY”...
You gonna get rid of it, and,
Bring back happy soul within you....


Look at the other self on the mirror
Laugh at the problems of rear
We can’t win over God’s deed
We have no option but to heed
Accept presenting moments gracefully
Have Strong heart to fight blissfully
Life is more beautiful to live joyously
Notice positive changes it brings slowly
World awaits with great things to offer
Bring back happy soul in you to prosper...

Happiness shows best person within you
Brings back happy soul within you....

Monday, October 1, 2012

Never Gonna Let You Go Awayyy....




Imagine the below crazy lines scribbled, on a context where guy/lover/husband reaches home and she is not there (had a small fight over yesterday's dinner). In Tamil language, we have two words named "Oodal" and "Koodal". Below lines are attempted on the similar lines. Some strange thoughts were running background......


Have the whole world gone dark
Have the stars stopped shining
Has the mind gone standstill...
Thought of you has numbed me without will...
Standing in the dusky woods alone
Being robbed of my sweet tone
Gone blind without you at home
Nah..Nah..Blindness is not now
From the day I have seen you
Groping in the dark to find you

Where are you my cute ladyyy...
I am not gonna let you go awayyy...
I am not gonna let you go awayyy...

Remembering the ways we like,
Your plays remaining strong,
Sleeping on my heavy chest
Shouting at my silly touch
Talking that sweetens the mood
Blushing that kills the very manhood
Dressing that raises the desire
Looks that bring absolute calm
Touches that forgets one’s self
Taunts that arouse excitement
Mesmerizing acts that rekindle love
Finding ways to enjoy contrasts within us

Where are you my cute ladyyy...
I am not gonna let you go awayyy...
I am not gonna let you go awayyy...


Gazing the beauty on my intimate bed
Cuddling the soul for soothing comfort
Running the feathery fingers on my face
Enduring the bites on little cheeks
Enjoying the kisses from glossy lips
Hearing the breath on embracing chest
Rolling the body on shady nest
Fighting the sleep with soft pillows
Talking the life over twilight moon
Missing the act of you in my life


Where are you my cute ladyyy...
I am not gonna let you go awayyy...
I am not gonna let you go awayyy...


Remember the Fun of exchanging rings
We switched our hearts for life to sing
Liked your simple thought on beautiful life
Missing your gifted companion as my wife
Your fondness enlivens this dull soul
Your happiness brings immense console
You are such a star close to my heart
I don’t wanna lose you in any ways
Come back home, my lovely spouse
Can’t live a moment without you at house

Where are you my cute ladyyy...
I am not gonna let you go awayyy...
I am not gonna let you go awayyy...
Gonna take care of my precious...
And, not gonna let you go away....